Many first-time tarot reading clients think that simply receiving a reading is enough to create change. But as any experienced intuitive reader will tell you, tarot is about more than just insight—it’s a tool for self-development and transformation. To truly make the most of your reading, you need to take some intentional action.
You’re excited. Your mind is buzzing with new insights and possibilities. And yet, there’s a sense of calm too—like you’re starting to get clear on the path ahead. You should feel calmer and empowered with this gift of clarity.
So, what should you do next?
Should you reflect on the cards? Should you begin putting your new plan into action? Or should you let it all sink in for a bit and wait for further clarity?
In today’s post, I’m going to show you the 8 most important steps to take right after your tarot reading, whether it’s an in-person session or a tarot reading online. By following these steps, you’ll fully integrate the guidance you’ve received, take control of your life, and make real magick happen.
Step #1. Download Your Tarot Reading & Take Notes
Your first order of business is to download your tarot reading. My readings are emailed as a video. Once that pops into your inbox, grab it! It’s yours to keep and watch as many times as you’d like. Clients love cozying up with something to drink to watch their intuitive messages unfold.
It’s tempting to assume you’ll remember everything, but life can get busy, and those deep insights might slip away. Instead, jot down key points from your reading—cards that stood out, specific messages, and any rituals or energy healing ideas I include. This helps you stay connected to the wisdom of your session and take action on the guidance.
Tarot reading clients look over their journals weeks or months later and can’t believe how events have happened!
Pro tip: Sometimes the psychic predictions in your reading need a chance to happen first. You’ll recognize what’s going on currently. But if something doesn’t quite make sense, give them time to show up! A few women have waited a week or two, then BAM—Mr. Mysterious, a new house, or a career change came into their lives.
Step #2. Fill in Key Dates on Your Calendar
Many tarot reading online clients walk away from a session feeling inspired but don’t always take the next step of planning. Smart clients take that inspiration and turn it into action by filling in key dates on their calendar.
For example, if your reading highlighted important periods for self-reflection, new opportunities, or challenges, make note of those dates. You might also schedule rituals or spells that align with moon phases or other astrological events mentioned during your reading. This way, when those moments arrive, you’ll be ready to work with the energy instead of letting it pass by.
Here are some things to keep in mind:
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Write down important astrological dates that came up in your reading. Don’t just hope you’ll remember them.
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Schedule reminders for self-care or shadow work. Otherwise, life has a way of pushing those practices to the back burner.
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Block out time for rituals or journaling. If you don’t make space for them, they rarely happen.
- Months or seasons might feature in your reading. Write a nice, big reminder at the start of the page in your planner.
Some clients only skim their notes once, maybe twice, and hope that remembering the “big” messages will be enough. Smart tarot seekers actually map out their reading in their calendar, so they’re always in flow with the guidance.
Why does this matter? Because when you sync your tarot insights with your real-world schedule, you stop treating your reading like a one-off event and start weaving it into your daily life. That’s when tarot becomes a true tool for transformation.
For example, I once had a reading that pointed to a career shift around the fall equinox. Because I had blocked off that week, I was ready when the opportunity arrived—and I grabbed it without hesitation. If I hadn’t honored that timing, it would have passed me by.
If you struggle with consistency or just “forget” to look back at your notes, try setting repeating reminders in your phone. Even a simple alert like “Check your tarot journal” once a week will keep you aligned with your guidance.
Step #3. Reflect on the Themes from Your Tarot Reading
Taking some time to reflect on the major themes from your reading is crucial for integrating the messages. Were you drawn to cards about love, career, or spiritual growth? What patterns emerged, and how do they resonate with your current life situation?
Just as importantly, how do they guide you to where you want to be?
As a psychic reader, I often suggest my clients use journaling or meditation to reflect on their tarot readings. These practices can help you process what came up in the reading and begin to recognize where those themes are playing out in your everyday life. The more you reflect, the deeper your understanding becomes—and that’s where the real transformation happens.
Your own insights can come in a flash, too. I love taking walks before sitting down to do your reading. So many intuitive messages come through that way.
To learn how to go deeper with your journaling practice and use it for personal growth, check out Susannah Conway’s guide to journaling for beginners.
Step #4. Set Small, Intentional Goals for Self-Development
After your tarot session, it can be tempting to try and tackle everything at once. But don’t overwhelm yourself. Instead, choose one or two small, intentional goals based on the guidance you received.
For example, if your reading suggested a career change, start with a small action like updating your resume or scheduling a conversation with a mentor. If your tarot reading pointed to the need for more spiritual practice, begin with a simple daily meditation or energy clearing ritual.
These small steps keep you grounded while helping you build momentum toward bigger changes.
Bonus tip: Check out The Druid’s Garden guide on creating a daily spiritual practice.
Step #5. Create a Follow-Up Ritual to Reinforce Your Tarot Reading
Creating a follow-up ritual is a powerful way to reinforce the energy and messages from your tarot session. This could be lighting a candle with intention, performing a guided meditation, or following one of the energy healing suggestions I may send you.
Rituals help ground the guidance from your reading and keep you aligned with the insights you’ve received. Plus, they’re a great way to bring a little more magick into your daily life.
I make it easier for you by providing some of these in your video:
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Information about your chakras
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Specific animal totems, flower energies, or crystals that come up
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Suggestions for simple visualizations you can do
One of the best spells I ever cast was given to me by my favorite psychic witch. I’d run to her (again) in a tizzy, and her reassuring me with a printout and can-do attitude was just what I needed.
When I recommend a ritual, I’m not asking you to turn your life upside down—just to anchor the energy. For example, if your reading emphasized self-worth, a simple mirror affirmation ritual each morning can work wonders. If your reading pointed to releasing the past, burning a list of what you’re letting go of under the waning moon can be incredibly freeing. Ritual doesn’t have to be complicated to be powerful.
See how many ways you can adapt one ritual into your daily life—morning candle lighting, journaling prompts, or even a short grounding meditation. Small repetition builds big magick.
Step #6. Schedule a Check-In with Yourself
Another great way to make the most of your tarot reading is to schedule a future check-in with yourself. This could be a week, a month, or even longer—whatever feels right based on the guidance you received.
During this check-in, review your notes, reflect on the progress you’ve made, and reassess the guidance from your tarot reading. Doing this keeps you accountable and ensures you’re not letting those valuable insights slip through the cracks.
Pro Tip: Rewatching your video is just as powerful the second or third time. You may catch new information or hear messages in a way you didn’t before.
Step #7. Share Your Experience with a Trusted Friend
Sometimes, sharing your tarot reading experience can deepen your understanding of the messages. If it feels right, talk to a trusted friend or spiritual mentor about your session. Share the insights and guidance you received from your tarot reading and discuss how you plan to implement them.
However, be mindful that some messages from a tarot reading are deeply personal and may need to be held close to your heart. Trust your intuition about what to share and what to keep private.
Sharing your story is a very smart (and practical!) way to process the messages and feel supported.
For example, you could tell your best friend about the “aha” moment from your reading and ask her to hold you accountable for one action step. But that’s just one idea! You can also…
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Write about your reading in a private online group or journal community.
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Create a creative expression of your reading—a vision board, painting, or even playlist.
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Talk it through with a mentor or spiritual coach.
You have many options, so use them to keep yourself engaged, inspired, and moving forward with the energy of your session.
Step #8. Stay Open to Magick and Synchronicities
Finally, remember that tarot is about more than just the session itself—it’s about the magick you create afterward. Stay open to synchronicities, signs, and symbols that show up in your everyday life. Your tarot reading may have planted seeds that will continue to grow, but it’s your attention and intention that will help those seeds flourish.
By staying open and engaged with the messages from your tarot for self-development session, you’ll notice how the universe sends you exactly what you need, often in the most surprising ways.
This activity is one of the most overlooked, but also one of the most important (which is why I saved it for last). If you don’t notice and track the synchronicities that show up, how will you know what’s working?
Here’s what to do: Check back in 3 weeks to see what signs or messages have appeared. Write them down in your tarot journal.
Did you get the results you expected? How well did you track your synchronicities and intuitive nudges? Did you slip into autopilot and forget to look for them?
For example, if you noticed repeating numbers but didn’t follow through on the nudge they gave you, you may have to alter your approach to paying attention.
Here’s what I do when that happens:
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Write down every “strange coincidence” no matter how small. This trains your intuition.
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Revisit the main themes of your reading weekly. It keeps the guidance fresh.
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Do a quick grounding ritual before journaling. It helps you see connections more clearly.
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Ask yourself: “If this were a sign, what would it be telling me?” Curiosity opens the channel.
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Adjust your actions if you notice you’re ignoring repeated messages. Spirit tends to repeat itself until you listen.
Make sure you check in like this frequently and adjust your plan accordingly.
Final Thoughts
Making the most of your tarot reading—whether in person or an online tarot reading—is about more than just listening to the messages. It’s about integrating them into your daily life, taking small, intentional actions, and staying open to the magick around you. Each step helps you turn insights into transformation, and before you know it, you’re creating real change in your world.
Ready to experience the life-changing insights of a tarot reading? Book your session today and get the guidance, spells, and energy healing practices that will help you take control of your path and make magick in your everyday life.
If you think your work is over as soon as you finish your reading, I’ve got surprising news for you. What you do AFTER the reading is even more important than what you do before. Taking your foot off the gas can turn all that work into a false start.
So instead of skimming your notes once and forgetting them, spend some time weaving your insights into daily life. Try some of the steps above and keep them in mind for your next reading. Most importantly, stop breezing through the magick. Take the time to honor your reading. Before you know it, you’ll see the results and start living the transformation you’ve been waiting for.
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